So my first close-ish friend kind of came out to me, and his family...
I thought I'd be a lot cooler with it but what I said was, " are you sure? Well, ok then"
I didn't really see it coming. I guess it's not a big deal.
( Well, we sort of went out last spring a few times so I guess it is!)

I can't imagine harboring such a big secret, for so long. But, if he is in fact sure....I hope it works out ok.